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writes:Hi everyone just a question I have been wondering about I have been having sex with this man for 9 months now once maybe twice a week more when we first met he has accused me of cheating on him twice both of which times I haven't I would not cheat on him last week I was getting fed up with him he told me to keep in touch with him more often so I did but he never texts me now I always have to text him also after the second time he accused me of cheating I was getting annoyed with it so I text him back and asked if he still wanted to see me or if he didn't I would not contact him again the reply I got was thanks that was it now we have been back in touch for a few days he forgot my birthday which was the 19 and today christmas day I had to text him happy christmas forst why does he treat me this badly I know I shouldn't stick around wasting my time any longer but I genuinely like him I don't know why so my question is how do I get him to treat me better and how do I make him see that its him I want and I won't hurt him he has told me he has trust issues what do I do thank you for any answers
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reader, aster  +, writes (26 December 2011):
Hi
If you're certain that he loves you, you could maybe tell him that it's irritating you how he is bothered too much about this trust thing. Maybe he has had problems in past dealing with someone who was unfaithful to him, maybe cheated on him. Since you really like this person, try to understand what is really bothering him. If you think he is behaving really crazy even after a discussion, you might need to reconsider your decision to stick with him coz chances are, he might keep behaving this way all through.
Good Luck!!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (26 December 2011):
 My answer won't satisfy you, and yet I'll try putting in my 2 cents.
You can't MAKE him treat you better, and you don't need to.
The real question is not why does he treat you so badly, it is why do you let him. Why are you still panting after someone who won't even bother with wishing you Merry Xmas.
Assume that he treats you badly simply because he does not care enough to treat you any better- that's all. The " trust issues " is an old cliche' which is probably only bullshit, but if it's true it would be HIS problem to work on , not yours to solve for him.
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