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Depression has gotten worse now that my BF has broken up with me, what should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend has broken up with me, because I recently I have been stuck in a depressive episode, due to a load of family crap with my parents. Over the last 2 years I have had 2 nervous breakdowns, 8 different anti-depressants, counsell...

A.   29 June 2011: You need to address the issue of why your feeling this way and find a way to overcome it or move on, it's good that you haven't texted your boyfriend and you've given him the space he needs. Use this time as a time to reflect and grow as a person ... (read in full...)

I discovered my husband watches porn...I am threatening divorce

Q.   Hi, I have been reading various questions and answers recently and have a question of my own to ask you all: About 5 years ago I discovered husband had been watching porn, I came across this quite innocently while looking through our music librar...

A.   25 April 2011: if he is watching porn and he likes it why dont you watch it with him maybe get to the root of why he likes it soo much and you might find you like it... telling a guy not to watch porn is like telling a dog not to have a poo,,, it isnt going to ... (read in full...)

How do you french kiss?

Q.   This may sound stupid but I really need help on this. My BF and I have dated 2 other times before. He has tried to fench kiss me both times and I have pulled away every time. Now we are dating again and he has tried it again. I told him not yet but ...

A.   25 April 2011: sounds like the only way you'll know is if you experience it, just tell him that you've never french kissed before and you would like to know and can he be the first one to teach you???? he might be flattered :)... (read in full...)

Why does she want to speak to me, after rejecting me?

Q.   Hi! I'm in love with a girl she is my collage mate. I proposed to her but she rejected me but she spoke to me for two months. This new year she suddenly stopped speaking to me, I asked her the reason but she said "no I don't want to speak to you". I ...

A.   25 April 2011: it sounds like she just wants to stay friends and she doesnt feel the same way,,, and instead of being straight forward about how she feels she ignored you,,, it seems like she feels she is comfortable around you now to just carry on being friends ... (read in full...)

Can't get this boy off my mind, even though I barely know him. Is it possible to truly like someone without knowing them?

Q.   There's this guy who goes to my school that I really like but barely know. Basically, whenever I'm not in school I miss him so much that it always gets to the point of me crying my eyes out or lashing out at my family. Everything I do makes me think ...

A.   25 April 2011: sound like you've fallen in love at first sight.... just get too know him and see how it goes from there.... (read in full...)

Is it ok to ask a married man out for coffee?

Q.   Hi everybody. First time here. Could use your advice. I am friendly with a married man. Our sons go to karate together. We talk a lot when we see each other twice a week. He always finds me to talk and seems to enjoy my company. I enjoy his compan...

A.   25 April 2011: yes of course it is, aslong as theres no hidden agenda in why you are asking him out and its just friends then yeah its fine, the only time its not is when you start sneaking around because his wife will get suspicious,,,, so just be open and honest ... (read in full...)

How can my best friend who is extremely beautiful, be so insecure?

Q.   I've never really used this website, but i have a majour confusion with my best friend. I don't see her in the way other males do, she is more like a sister. But many, many! guys are always telling me that they are very jealous that i know her or ...

A.   25 April 2011: sometimes the beauty that other people see are not necessary the beauty that we see,,, what might be beautiful in other peoples eyes can be flaws in our own.... (read in full...)

I am pregnant with my history teacher's baby. Who should I tell? Cd I make out it's my Bf's baby instead?

Q.   Hi everyone! So I finally found out I'm pregnant with my History teacher's baby and I don't know what to do. I'm 100 per cent sure I'm going to keep it and I don't know if I should tell him what's going on, or if I just should tell my boyfriend I'...

A.   25 April 2011: well,,, first of all your both in the wrong for sleeping with each other,,, but more him than you he's suppose to protect you and guide you, not guide you into his bed,, and you should tell your parents and they should tell the authorities because ... (read in full...)

My friends have made me anxious to have sex. But how? Is this a good idea?

Q.   hi, i'm almost 18 and a virgin :) i have been in a relationship since i was 15. my boyfriend is a nice guy and i trust him a lot but still i never let him have any kind of sexual intercourse with me. but now i am thinking to move into a phys...

A.   25 April 2011: the fact that your anxious about this proves you still need time, dont feel pressured to loose your virginity because of what age you are or because of what your friends have bragged about to you, just take a lot of comfort in knowing that your ... (read in full...)

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