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Why does she treat sex as if it's something comical and funny?

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Question - (22 August 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Okay well my girlfriend offered too buy me come 'CLIT SWEETS' from Anne Summers and i dunno why but i thought it was a bit immature and rude. My girlfriend is lovely and a really nice girl but she can be a bit immature at times. Its like 'im having sex with someone who finds things to do with sex funny' etc...

do people understand what i mean? i dont mind if im in the wrong...

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A female reader, camille United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2006):

camille agony auntdon't feel bad, just relax and enjoy yourself!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006):

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okayy thanks i feel bad now! etc.....maybe i just wasn't in the mood....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006):

I agree with Camille. Sex is supposed be a wonderful, fun, loving experience and your gf sounds like a fu loving girl with a healthy attitude and appetite for sex. She's not immature...I think you are way too serious. Let loose and have a blast. I too wonder, if her wanting to purchase 'clit sweets' is her way of encouraging you to perform oral sex on her? Take the hint, get down there and enjoy! In a great relationship I strongly encourage you to have an open mind and enjoy the great feelings of bonding it brings. Be creative and have fun!

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A female reader, camille United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2006):

camille agony auntNope sorry, I'm with her, it's not immature, just fun and frivolous. I turn the question back on you.... why do you treat sex as if it's something serious?

There's nothing wrong with having fun in the bedroom, it's just a different way to enjoy it. Maybe you're a prude? Maybe tis you who has an issue? Or maybe just maybe....you two are totally incompatible!? Seriously, I think it's going to be difficult if you really see this as a problem. Do you give your girlfriend oral sex? Because if she didn't intend it as a joke, perhaps it was a hint?

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