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writes:It's been 7 months into our relationship and dated only twice.... We both express our feelings (i.e. I love you) over 50 times a day through the mobile phone.... everything goes fine... but don't know sometimes she acts very weird... she says that I'll leave her... I have a weak point, that is, I was into drugs for couple of years, but I quit that after I met her.... actually as I started 2 feel for her, it helped me to quit.... and before I declared the magic words (I love you) I said about my past... about doing drugs... she still wanted to get into a relationship with me... then I approached... but the thing is why is she saying that i'll leave her? I really love her and can't think anything without her... is this about the drugs or that I can't love the way she wants to be loved?
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reader, sexi  +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Hi, Your gf sounds insecure.She probably needs alittle reassurance every now and then. Ask her whyshe feels that way and then you can stop the things that you may be doing that gives her these thoughts. You need ti rid her of those fears because you know that it would never happen.
Speak to her.
Good Luck,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Actions speak louder than words.
I expect she has been hurt in the past & everyone has left her. Or maybe it even goes back to her childhood, parents splitting or something along those lines.
Still earlyish days for you 2 so keep proving to her you love her & encourage her to listen to what you are saying & the way you are with her.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): this is just her "asking" if you will for your undivided attention. she wants you to reaffirm to her that u truly do love her. i have been in my relationship for about 8 and a half months so we are just about in the same time frame. i dont know how your girls demeanor is when she asks or tells u that if/are you going to leave her, but my girl and i think every girl has that same fear when they finally meet someone who is worth the effort. what u need to do is reaffirm your bond to her. dont just say i wont leave you...and never make light of her fear, hold her tightly and just express yourself to her. give her the world in a sense is what i am trying to say. just ease her fears by being the same great boyfriend u have been. good luck
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reader, oikid11  +, writes (13 August 2007):
 She ian't afraid of your history. She is afraid of hers. ever hear the saying "History repeats itself."? I have a feeling she has been hurt in the past, and is scared you will hurt her. Also, we females also are very attatchive, i was WICKED attatched to my boyfriend. Now I am not. We are afraid our boys are going to leave us for someone better, whether the have big boobs, will have sex, or are cuter. It scares us. PLease send me a message for more info.
Hope this helps.
xx
Gloria
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reader, niceguy07 +, writes (13 August 2007):
 this is just her "asking" if you will for your undivided attention. she wants you to reaffirm to her that u truly do love her. i have been in my relationship for about 8 and a half months so we are just about in the same time frame. i dont know how your girls demeanor is when she asks or tells u that if/are you going to leave her, but my girl and i think every girl has that same fear when they finally meet someone who is worth the effort. what u need to do is reaffirm your bond to her. dont just say i wont leave you...and never make light of her fear, hold her tightly and just express yourself to her. give her the world in a sense is what i am trying to say. just ease her fears by being the same great boyfriend u have been. good luck
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