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*ylittlenana
writes:why havent i been able to forgive my husband of 7yrs for cheating on me and why do i love him so much but hate him as well?why is it that when my husband and i have sex it is painful rather than pleasurable? Reply to this Question
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reader, mylittlenana +, writes (20 August 2010):
mylittlenana is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you all who answered my question!! all of the info was very helpful.. i'm glad to know that i can actually talk to others about my problems rather than just write in my journal.. thank you all once again and GOD BLESS you all!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): Most people marry lazy individuals with an undeveloped personality, so when life's problems knock at your door they always choose the easiest path, that of least resistance.
The end result is sorrow, pain, and spiritual death.
And cheating is a trauma that the mind will simply never accept. I have yet to hear a cheating victim saying "I fully recovered from it".
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reader, person12345 +, writes (19 August 2010):
 I'd guess it hurts because you can't forgive him. And why should be expected to forgive him? He violated your trust and hurt you intentionally. You have to decide if it's something you can or can't get over. No one would think you were a bad person for leaving someone who cheated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): You love him because well... you know why you love him. He's your husband not mine.
You hate him because trust was broken, he cheated.
And the painful sex thing, okay, that is something to ask your doctor about. I'm serious. You don't want to risk anything. And that's about all I can say.
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reader, clayton +, writes (19 August 2010):
becuase you still havent forgivin him..but once a cheater always a cheat leave him hes no good if he cant be faithful to you then you ant trust him...what a dick
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