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writes: okay i just dont know wat to think... my x boyfriend and i talk like if we were never going out.. last night i went over to seee him we were just chillin and talking but like at one point we didnt have too much to talk about so he brought up the past .. it wasnt bad but it was a little akward. know that i think about it... it hasnt been the first time he has done that. but why does he do that of bringing up the past does he want to go back..?.. cuz some times i do think he does and sometimes i just think he doesnt because we dont c each other everyday or every oother day its just when i wanna see him and that he isnt bussy that we see each other..(:the thing i wanna know is why would he always bring up the past..?...
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 I have no idea.. but I told my ex forcefully, NO more talk about the past because it hurts. We only talk of the present now and that's better. Puts things into perspective and stops me wondering "why and what if".
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reader, raiders  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 do you want to go back with him...if you do than go ahead and ask him if he still has feelings for you since he keeps reminiscing about past events. If you don't want to go back and want to be just friends than let him know that he makes you feel uncomfortable when he brings up old thing that happened in the past.
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reader, gimmestarbucksfool +, writes (2 September 2010):
Well love, I think that's something you need to ask him. Because most of the time, that means he's thinking about getting back together with you. If you ask him, then you may be able to talk about it and see if that's what you want.
I hope I've helped,
Lauren.
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