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writes:I can really say that this is a relationship question. My relationship is perfect, but I'm a pretty quiet person if I don't know someone. When my boyfriends brother comes over with his girlfriend I never say much more then Hi, How are you? sometimes I'll carry on a 10 minute conversation. My boyfriend tells me that I'm a lot like his brother but I get the feeling that he doesn't like me. He might even hate me. I often catch him staring at me not a mean star but not smiling either but not when his girlfriend is close by, if I don't speak he doesn't. Sometimes he greets me in a very excited and pleasant way and others times he's extremely cold. I havent really known him long enough for him to have a reason to dislike me. I'm always pleasant but quite. Did I do something wrong to this guy? Why doesn't he like me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Mrs.Scofield  +, writes (18 August 2009):
Wow you wanna know what all that stuff you just said is the oppisite of disliking you I think he has a crush on you....If he stares at you when his gf isnt around so she doesnt catch him...Exited to see you then Trying to hide that he likes you by giving you the cold shoulder probuly really hard for him not to be exited when your there....He porb just has a crush guys are wierd like that lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): He likes you, but he cant hide that well enough, he uses his cold demeanor to try and hide it from his girlfriend and everyone else..
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (2 August 2008):
 Hi Hunny
rcn has it on the ball once again, I dont think he doesnt like you, If he is looking at you when his g/f is no around then this to me is he is admiring you and thats not good while she isnt around. But one things for sure sweetheart he doesnt hate you or dislike you this is just the way he is hunny, So just be the lovely you and know your not doing anything wrong ok TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, ClaireAndJamieXX +, writes (2 August 2008):
 Im thinking more the opposite of him disliking you.. He stares at you when his girlfriends not around, not to intimidate you, to probably let you know he likes you. I know it sounds weird but thats sometimes the way shy people act. And his greetings probably vary to who was near at the time. If his brother or girlfriend was near he was probably cold so that they wouldnt have any idea what was going on. Just talk to him about it or joke next time he stares at you by saying something like "its alright im not going to run away! No need to watch me" but remember to make sure he knows a comment like this is a joke as it could be taken as offensive. Or you could just be direct with him or tell his brother.. Good luck xx
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (2 August 2008):
 I think he is a variable mood guy or adeolescent do not feel down because of his ups and downs, you can bee cool to him all time like smile and show friendly attitude or just relax and do it when you please as he doesforget about it and enjoy
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reader, rcn +, writes (2 August 2008):
 You've done nothing wrong. It doesn't sound like he dislikes you. If he did, he wouldn't greet you at any time in a pleasant way. His looking at you when his girlfriend is not around is not appropriate. Reason being, his girlfriend may get upset if she sees her boyfriend checking out another girl. His looks may be viewed as looks of affection, but not directly showing it. Generally if someone doesn't like you, they won't have the subtle stare toward you.
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