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I have a newspaper fetish. Should I be open about it?

Q.   I have a strange fetish and i want to be open about it. i love newspapers and magazines. i love to buy them and sleep with them and hold them close to my skin. i feel that this is strange because i have never heard of it before. should i tell p...

A.   2 August 2008: As open as a closed book (or in your case newspaper). Unless your in a relationship with someone you feel you can trust.. But dont drag them off to the newsagents on the first date or anything. Other than that i dont see why you should tell people ... (read in full...)

We broke up over me not getting naked on webcam! Did I do the right thing?

Q.   Ok, so i met this reaaaaaally cute guy on the net, he is a one-of-a-kind boy, he even says he believes in true love and happily ever after, and we have like a week talking everyday like 5-8 hours about everything, i really like him, and he says that ...

A.   2 August 2008: He was just interested in seeing you naked. Its amazing the lengths that guys would go to for that and the things they would say. of course you did the right thing by having self respect and standing up for yourself! If anyone truely cared for anot... (read in full...)

Could there be another guy? Is there a chance to get her back? What should I do?

Q.   i had been going out with this girl for two months who i really loved and she also appeared to love me. everything was going fine throughout those two months, we would talk every night for hours. she lived around 30 minutes from me and would come to ...

A.   2 August 2008: Sounds like shes going through a rough time. All you can really do is be patient understanding and caring towards her. From what you have told us i see no signs of another guy. She will probably get back with you once things are sorted out. As for ... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend's brother hate me?

Q.   I can really say that this is a relationship question. My relationship is perfect, but I'm a pretty quiet person if I don't know someone. When my boyfriends brother comes over with his girlfriend I never say much more then Hi, How are you? sometimes ...

A.   2 August 2008: Im thinking more the opposite of him disliking you.. He stares at you when his girlfriends not around, not to intimidate you, to probably let you know he likes you. I know it sounds weird but thats sometimes the way shy people act. And his greetings ... (read in full...)

Would he be excited by ANY girl telling him they liked him, or just me?

Q.   would a guy be really excited if a girl said she like him and if he had not dated in a while i think. Let say his name is zach and I admitted I like him. He was really happy and all that. would he act the same with another girl?...

A.   2 August 2008: Well any guy (or girl) would be chuffed to be asked out by anyone really but it would be all the more pleasing if you actually liked the person asking you out. If he didnt like you he would have rejected your offer but still be pleased. Just have ... (read in full...)

Catastrophic phone sex. Does she hate me? Have I messed up?

Q.   I have just come off the phone with my girlfriend after an unsuccessful phone sex session. I feel really bad as she was really horny and I didn’t know what to say as I’ve never had phone sex before. (or real sex for that matter) When I said ...

A.   2 August 2008: Calm down this girl has no good reason to be mad at you at all. She might have just been embarrassed by her suggesting phone sex or she really had to get off the phone quickly. Whatever the reason she shouldnt be mad at you for being honest. Try ... (read in full...)

He wrote notes to other girls in school!

Q.   how can i trust and get over my boyfriend writting other girls notes at school.like he was emontionly cheating. We been dating for 3 yrs 1 month. Well basicly after 2 years together he had doubts and last winter is when i found some notes( 2) and ...

A.   2 August 2008: Its impossible to force yourself to trust someone especially if they have taken advantage of it in the past. The only advice i can give you is to give yourself time to build up some trust with him again and eventually you will be able to trust him, ... (read in full...)

Sent pics of myself in bra and pants to another boy, who then showed my boyfriend!

Q.   hey everyone I feel so terrible about myself right now. Well my bf was recently in a wreck I heard (at the time hes was ex) And his cousin texted me saying that he wanted to fix things with me and when he woke up she would tell him that I forgave ...

A.   2 August 2008: Just tell your boyfriend what you told us if you havent already. Explain that you feel really stupid about the whole situation and regret it all also tell him that hes the one you have feelings for. If he really cares for you he should eventually ... (read in full...)

Sex is terribly painful.... please tell me why?

Q.   Hello all, I have a problem which has been getting me so, so down. I started sleeping with my boyfriend about a year ago and it's been agonisingly painful every single time. It's got to the point now where I'm brought to tears and really can't do ...

A.   2 August 2008: Go to your doctor again and tell them that what they suggested isnt working. It sounds like the problem is that your muscles tense whenever your going to have sex making you too tight for entry. Your doctor should be able to give you plastic domes ... (read in full...)

I'm flirting with a boy, but I really want a girl.

Q.   WHY DO I ALWAYS DO THIS :(!!.... I have been flirting with this boy i know for a while, and he thinks i really like him, which i do. hes sweet and kind....but its not him i really i want. really im falling for a girl from work (who is so straight). ...

A.   2 August 2008: Its normal for teens to do this. Flirting can be a way of showing your interest in someone or just for fun. You never know he might think he is the one playfully flirting with you when he also has another love interest in mind. But be careful not to ... (read in full...)

My best friend told me I was obsessed with my brother dying, now he hasn't got the guts to apologise! Why?

Q.   My brother died couple of weeks ago because he had cancer. I even missed a week of school because of it. When I told my best guy friend (also my brother's friend) he said I'm "obsessed" with him and need to forget about him. I was so mad I slap...

A.   2 August 2008: People handle death in different ways perhaps your more open about the issue than your friend and every time you mention your brother all the bad feelings that he is trying to suppress start bubbling up again. His little outburst most probably wasnt ... (read in full...)

My 'best friend' tricked me in to believing he could help me date this girl, yet the whole time he was dating her himself!

Q.   I have fallen for this girl at school, the problem is she does not know that i exist. I have liked her for 4 years, since i started secondary school. I am really shy, but my best friend knows her really well. He was telling me what to get her like ...

A.   2 August 2008: Well could you have asked for a better ending? Go for it! As for your friend?.. I wouldnt even look at him again! =] xx... (read in full...)

I don't fancy my teacher but I can't stop thinking about her...

Q.   I am a girl and there is a female teacher at my school who I have always liked - a favourite teacher. But I have started to become a little, I don't know, obsessive. I always make an effort on the days when I have her lessons, and often dream about ...

A.   2 August 2008: Just sounds like a normal teen obsession. Some people can feel this way about family, friends, actors or in your case their teacher. Just someone they feel close to, admire or look up to. Dont stress over it your perfectly normal and its just a ... (read in full...)

My friend doesn't seem to fancy anyone. Is something wrong with her?

Q.   I have a question on behalf of a friend. She is 14 and last year she had a serious - I mean serious - love for a male actor (she is female btw). She often talked about wanting to bed him etc. However, now she has not mentioned a crush of any...

A.   1 August 2008: Both of you need to take a deep breath and calm down lol she has nothing wrong with her at all. Its perfectly normal to have periods when you just dont have any interest in dating or guys. Tell her just to wait for the right guy to come along and ... (read in full...)

Should I ask this girl out? She's three years younger than me.

Q.   Alright... I'm 16 and I'm kinda into this girl who's 13. Should I ask her out? or is that wrong? Or maybe I should wait? ...

A.   1 August 2008: Just go for it if its what you want! its not that big an age gap really and girls mature around 3 years faster than guys so maturity wise its ideal. Just make sure that you really like this girl and are not trying to take advantage of her otherwise ... (read in full...)

Which method is best for removing hair on my upper lip?

Q.   Hey, Im a girl and I have hair that grows above my top lip and its horrible. (I don't like referring to it as a "tash" because that just makes it sound worse, lol). I hate it so so much. It makes me feel ugly and manly. Im afraid to look at any l...

A.   1 August 2008: Argh its annoying having dark hair and being pale huh? I use nair hair removal cream it doesnt grow back for weeks and is simple to use, cheap and pain free! Xx =] ... (read in full...)

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