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Why does my boyfriend act defensive when I ask him to delete ex's pic off of his phone?

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Question - (28 April 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im in a longdistance relationship. we knew each other for 2 years and 8 months together. he just went here last month for holiday. hes in australia and im from singapore. when he was here in singapore i open his phone accidentally saw his ex picture. then i ask him whys he still have a picture on his ex. and he said it was accidetally snycronized. then after that i forget it and it was nothing to me,. then after when he get back to australia. three weeks later i remember that. i was just asking him that. did he deleted his ex girlfriend photo?! then he was annoyed and mad. because he said that he already told me that it was just accident to upload and he said okay fine i will deleted it. then saying something that why is it big deal to me. im dissapointed in him. because he so defensive about it instead anwer it nicely. that im always bring it up. i dont know how to reconcile with him? because he dont wanna talk about it, and hes still mad. what will i do? please help me my friend. im hoping that you will give me some advice. thank you.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (29 April 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntDo you both spend much time together? Are you sure she is an ex and you are not just a bit on the side? If you do not see him much then he could be doing all sorts. Are you sure he is to be trusted? Because it does not sound like it. Check next time you are with him to see if they are still there, although my guess is that he will keep his phone with him at all times.

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (28 April 2012):

Basschick agony auntHanging onto pictures of an ex....could mean he's still hung up on her. Could mean she's not really an "ex" and he's just keeping that a secret. Next time he takes a shower, delete them yourself. See how long it takes him to notice. I know, I'm evil. I have no patience for exes.

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