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writes:My boyfriend and I text, well, 24/7, and it is him who texts me first. Now, this may seem weird, but he sent me a text saying :'no offense, but I wanna concentrate on this film.'I understand most of you think I am over reacting but the point is we recently got back together after our temporary break up. Please, why does it feel like he's bored of me? Thank you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2011): i undestand what you mean.
My bf and i text all the time aswell so if he doesnt it feels like his getting bored or something.
My best advice. Leave him alone. No matter how hard it is, dont text him. Let his come to you. Make him want you and crave your attention. I promise it works
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2011): If he is getting a little 'bored' then having a few days apart, no contact, every now and again will be great for your relationship! It will keep things fun and intersting because you guys will actually have stuff to catch up on and will be looking forward to seeing each other. Good Luck!
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (4 June 2011):
 i think its ok that he wanted to concentrate on a film, at least he texted you to tell you so. if someone keeps texting me just to chat while i am busy doing something else they will not get reply until i have finished. so don't worry ok? why did you split up in the first place though? is the problem that caused the split still present?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (4 June 2011):
 I'm not reading into anything that would say that he is bored of you. Personally I think that all the texting and constant contact is bad for the relationship. Him wanting some time to himself doesn't mean that he is bored or doesn't want to be with you but it will get to that point if you push to be in constant contact with him. You two still need some space otherwise there is nothing special about the time that you do spend together.
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reader, The Devils-Angel  +, writes (4 June 2011):
 Well if he says he was watching a movie maybe it was an important one. And no you are not over reacting it's just in our nature to feel these things i know how it feels to break up with someone and get back together with them trust me i've been through it. but just try and give it time and see how it goes. if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out but if it does hold on to what you guys have together. and if you feel like you need to just talk to him maybe he will understand that you feel this way and prove you different.
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reader, wiseoldman +, writes (4 June 2011):
Emotions run high at your age- it isn't easy but things tend to smooth out as you get older and that of course will happen naturally. Everyone needs a bit of downtime, just to be alone and relax. You do, and so does he, so try to be a bit calmer, and chat things over with him when things are a bit less stressful.
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