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anonymous
writes:hi,i'm a teenager and i've had a couple of boyfriends. my first boyfriend was the only one i dont regret. i dont regtret it because the whole becoming a couple was so easy because we were good for one another. but since then its been fellingless relationships(if you can call them that) and stupid guy flings.recently i've met this guy who is amazing, we have become really close but like every other guy he's pulled away(suddenly stopped talking to me). then i usually stop trying to contact them because i dont think they like me. is it me? why does this keep happening? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 June 2010):
I'm afraid that's teen boys for you. No tact, no understanding, no nothing. Young men don't mature as quickly as young women, so whilst you're mature, your teenage boyfriends probably aren't and probably don't understand what the whole dating thing is about. Just relax a little more, and stop bothering with guys for a while. Focus on yourself and have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): It's probably happening because you're a teenager! Teen relationships are often not serious because of the lack of maturity and the youth and experiences, therefore you may be jumping in too deep! Make sure you don't do anything sexual unless you're sure you want to do it and that you're sure you're not going to be dumped straight after, as guys may then think you're easy and just want you for that!
You're only young so you've got plenty of time to meet people, teen boys are significantly less mature than girls so take that into consideration too!
Don't concentrate too much on boys and just enjoy being young, if a guy really likes you - you'll know :) and I'm sure someone who is worth your time will come along
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