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Should I be offended by the comment he made about my appearance?

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Question - (4 June 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm quite offended by what my boyfriend has done, but i dont know if i should be. He noticed that i have some hair on my face, as some women do, you know the little hairs, and he pointed it out. Dont know why he hasnt noticed that before, and tonight, we were both sat down on the floor at first as we were watching tv. he stood up before i did, and while i was sat down and he was stood up, he stood right infront of me, and my head was level with where his penis is ( he had his pants on though ) and he got hold of my head and put it right near him and played with my hair , as if i was giving him oral sex. I got upset about it at first, and he said he was only messing around. He can be giddy and we usually have the same sense of humour, witty, sometimes crude, but i just thought he took it too far. I have actually given him oral sex before, although we both have never had full sex before, so maybe i shouldnt be worried about this ?. It's just that , with the comment he made about my appearance, he knows i'm a self conscious person, so i dont know why he would point it out. Sometimes i wish he would just grow up.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (4 June 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntNo you shouldn't. Guys make such comments. It's not worth putting too much thought into it unless he keeps repeating it.

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