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*oo roo 71
writes:im a 41 r old and i have been in a relationship with a guy for 8yrs and the last few months i havent been sleeping with him i dont know why.i seem to blame it on the fact that there is like no action in the bed.sex is like every 3 months or so.i give up.please help me to understand why the sparks have to die.
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reader, roo roo 71 +, writes (21 July 2012):
roo roo 71 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe were both married before and we dont wanna get married but ur advice on taking a weekend for ourselves that will never happen cause his kids have to be with him 24/7 .they r a;ways with him we never have time alone.i dont know what else to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2012): How do you get a garden to grow and thrive? You nurture it and give it attention.
Don't let the relationship wither from lack of attention.
Light a few sparks of your own and get him show you how he can light up your life and you can light up his life all over again.
And if you need a little support then maybe try some of the things listed here?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/spicing-up-your-sex-life.html
After all you have nothing to lose except a going no where lousy sparkless relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2012): My opinion is that a relationship needs feeding to survive like any other living thing. When the novelty wears off, people tend to just get used to how things are and it can quickly become a routine.
Did neither of you ever discuss taking your relationship to the next level?
-Engagement.
-Marriage.
Something to give the relationship some meaning again.
If you have the money, why not book a holiday for you two, or just a weekend or few days away in a hotel if a holiday is too much hassle?
Something to break the routine in an attempt to bring back a spark.
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