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writes: I have been in a relationship for 3 years.CONSTANTLY TOLD I WAS NEVER THERE,UNROMANTIC,NEVER PAID ATTENTION,etc.yes,it wasnt unfounded.I decided to change this,only to be met by the same behaviour.Constantly let down.When,i raised this it was met by an attitude of so what!unanswered phonecalls and texts.Generaly,the same unappreciated behavior.I decided whats the use,went back to being unreliable,only to be shown love again.(and the complaints). Why do some people react better when mistreated? I have experienced this so many times that i`m not being the considerate kind of man that i prefare being.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): hi,you said you have experienced this so many times,well surely you do know all women are not the same,so have you ever considered you seem to land these women and maybe you created them to behave in this way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): Richard Feynman observed the same phenomena in "Surely You are Joking Mr. Feynman".
A lot of women are just nutty. When they are teens they figure out that they are have this power over the world of adults because of their growning sexuality. So of course they enjoy excersising their new power. Why date teenagers when college men are interested in them! Why date college guys when when adults want to take to a lot of exciting nightspots!
The natural result of this is that these women always fall for the bad guys who their power doesnt work on. So they keep trying more and more to win the guy over. The worse he treats them the hard they have to try. What if this guy doesnt think she is pretty! Then she has nothing.... sob sob
Now you could easily go out there and play the "validate/withdraw" game with these women and do quite well for yourself. But in the end, whats the point? You end up with a nut.
You are much better off picking a girl that was a bookworm as a teen At least then you can have an adult to adult relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): Not all women are like that. They are a type. The worse the treatment,the deeper they love. "OH HE`S A REALLY NICE GUY,BUT I DONT LOVE HIM".Carry on as you are with this one.You`ll get more respect.
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