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Why do people leave people they supposedly care about?

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Question - (23 May 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Why is it that when people are supposedly happy and life is going good. They don't realize things, or realize they are pushing away people closest to them.

But when the storm comes they go back to the people that really matter to them and the people they thought they were "happy" with and the life they thought was happy doesnt even matter anymore.

And then they want and need who they pushed away?

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A male reader, Visthis United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2010):

Somestimes what seems like surrender isn't surrender at all. It's about what's going on in our hearts. About seeing clearly the way life is and accepting it and being true to it, whatever the pain, because the pain of not being true to it is far, far greater.

I use the quote to understand sometimes.. :) Maybe they comeback because its safe and they feel secure. Its all they know...

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (24 May 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntDo you have a specific example or problem? Can't really help when its such a broad, almost rhetorical question...

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