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writes:i have been married for over 30 yrs. and our sex life was from everything having sex at public places to swinger life style but now she does not want sex. we have sex once a week I want more and tell her all the time. i do the things she asks for, we both work. but now i am at the point of finding a woman on the side to have sex with. I have cheated on her early in our marriage and I do not use any drugs to help me with sex. she smokes dope off and on. how do i get her to want sex any more. I am at the end of the line we fight about it all the time. life out side the bed room is good we have moved to doing things. just sex is going down last month we had sex twice that month. bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): Sex once a week isn't that bad. Maybe you just need to chill out about it and things will work out.
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reader, laetitia  +, writes (23 May 2010):
 Well, clearly begging and fighting doesn't help, but probably makes the situation even worse.
Why don't you stop asking for sex for a while and pretend like you've given up and lost your appetite. Then when she asks, reject her. Tell her you're not in the mood and lately you've been feeling like your sex life is getting worse and worse and you're just losing interest in it all together. Reject her twice for the same reason. The third time tell her you're tired, exhausted. Eventually, she will feel the way you feel and hopefully she will ask you to talk about it and then you can negotiate your needs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): Why don't yuou stop asking for it ? It takes the romance striaght out if you ask for it outright so stop. Try and do something nice, take her out for a meal etc.
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