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Why do people always seem to go for partners who are already with someone else?

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Question - (16 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

Why do people always go for guys that have a bf/gf?

I hate these girls that always hits on him and invites him to party and drink with them even though they know he has me. Why do they do that? Are they just getting too old and desperately need to find a man to marry that they would try to break people up? Whats wrong with them?

I'm sure they wouldn't like to have this happen to them if they had their own man, unless they are just playing them. I'm so mad!

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (16 February 2007):

kenny agony auntI think it really boils down to one answer really and that is wanting someting you haven't got, that someone else has got.

Like woman who go for married men, its the thrill of going after something thats forbidden. But would that married man be so appealing if he were single? I think not.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007):

Unfortunately there are people out there who are just like this. I don't know why either, and it makes me so mad. We have a neighbour who lives on her own and she is always wanting my bloke to do her car stuff, i could scream but try to keep a cool. I think they like the game they play. If they can get a bloke interested who is with someone it is all the thrill of the thing. It really makes me sick. But try and keep your cool because he is with you and not with them. Never show you are jealous or mad but gently simmer inside with a perfect smile on your face.

Take care you are not alone.

xx

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