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female
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36-40,
*ovemeright11
writes:Why do men never seem to notice when a woman is maybe being to friendly? I hate how when I say something in that moment , that I may be viewed as crazy or jealous. I know I walked in the house today and a girl I never met had her hand on my boyfriends shoulder and she was really really close to him. I really thought it was inappropriate, but I did not want to make a scene. What do I do in this situation ? Just ignore it? I did for tonight, but shouldn't he be able to say to a woman whoa your a little to friendly? I don't mind if a woman had a crush on my boyfriend, look all you want, he is still with me in the end. I don't think it's okay for her to have her hands on him. Tell me what do I do or say when I bring it to his attention? That girl back away when I entered the room. She really gives me a strange vibe, like she wants him though.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 January 2013):
 I have come to the conclusion that men are mostly clueless about women coming on to them if they are the least little bit subtle.
If you trust your guy, then don't worry about it... if she gets too over the top and he notices he will put her in her place.
that being said... you could say something to him like 'you know she wants you right?" and his response will tell you tons.
My now husband and I had an LDR and he called me one day to say that HIS HAIRDRESSER had called him and she needed a place to WAIT FOR HER CAR to be fixed. He agreed. When he called me he said "she's asleep in my bed" I asked if it was on "my side" and pointed out he was the most clueless man I'd ever met... did he NOT see what she wanted"
He had NO CLUE she would have put out for him.... really I have found that men in love with one woman will TUNE OUT any subtle hints or even NOT so subtle hints of other women...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2013): I think you should make him aware that you thought it was inappropriate and made you feel uncomfortable. Otherwise you could end up having serious trust issues and the relationship could suffer. Just be honest =]
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (26 January 2013):
 Men like attention but its how he filters that attention that matters. I'm saying as long as he doesn't act on her all touchy and feely with him you need not worry unless there are trust issues present.
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