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writes:Hi, why do men seem to like me have long term relationships but never seem to fall in love with me. I feel i should just give up trying.i am in love with my partner of 6.5 months but he says he has feelings but too early to talk about love.i want to tell him how i feel but feel he will walk. I am 63 and he is 50. We get on great, see each other several times a week and constantly on the phone.I was married a long time, have 3children and grandchildren and would dearly love to be loved! Am i asking too much at my age? I am a young 63! Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 February 2016):
 It's great that you feel like you love him. It is a huge bonus in a relationship. He may not be ready to tell you that he loves you, as sometimes people are scared that saying it out loud might mean something much more than it does. But I agree with Denizen, telling someone you love them is just a word, anybody can say it without
even meaning it.
You need to take a look at what the last half of year has been like with this man, has he been good to you? Has he showing he cares? Does he take your feelings in to consideration? If he says he wants to be with you, and only you then I think you should relax knowing that the relationship is heading the right direction. Unless he is being distant with you I don't think that you have anything to worry about. You have raised your children, now it is time to enjoy yourself and have fun in this relationship. Good luck.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (8 February 2016):
 Love isn't really about the words. It's how you feel. Do you feel cared for? Do you feel supported? Are you valued? If so cherish what you have.
Love is an easy word to bandy about, but having someone who is there for you; thinking about you; putting you first is probably what true love really is.
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