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How should I message the guy I like ?

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Question - (7 February 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2016)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi ive just joined a dating site and ive seen someone i fancy on it ,its not quite as simple as that, this person isnt a stranger to me hes like an acquaintance ive always had a liking of him we spoke a few times over the years . im quite a very shy person but id like to message him . i dont have a profile pic on just yet . im thinking should i just message him and say he reminds me of someone i know of or should i just admit who i am and see how well we get on and see if it goes anywhere ? thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2016):

Why not get your pic and profile up on the site, then contact him. Say you realised you knew him on spotting his profile, tell him you are new to site so thought you'd say hi. Keep it light and friendly. And see how he responds. He may just say hi back which is fine. But he may suggest meeting up. Don't over think it. Just be casual.

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2016):

Denizen agony auntDating sites are remarkably unreliable. If I were you I would use a carrier pigeon or a message tied to an arrow. (I jest) There is also the time-honoured way of asking a mutual friend to intercede. Otherwise if you want to continue with the dating site then both your suggestions would do perfectly.

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