New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244969 questions, 1084319 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Why do I still want to hang onto him?

Tagged as: Dating, Troubled relationships<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (31 March 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *ru_2_oja writes:

First: you need to know, I am 34 and my boyfriend is 33 and we dont live together.

I will try to make this quick. I've been with my man for Three years now. started off with me finding out he was seeing a married women when he met me. failed to tell either of us until she ran into us, bad enough but he said it like this. i love you. any minute a crazy chick will come up to us. ok. long story short. SUPRISE. that's why he left his phone in the truck when he came over. so. with that said i questioned trust and honesty. well got past that. kinda. one night he drank and tried to kiss my best friend. found out that he's always a flirt when drinking. ok. long story short. three years later i finally got distant from him after he kept showing me dishonest signals. well he saw that i finally got sick of it. then that's when he started being wonderful. felt great but still didn't want to hang out with him. i was so board. he has no communication skills. started not to know how to even act around him after all the emotional mistreatment. now i know iv successfully pushed him away. why do i now out of all times want to hang on to him?

View related questions: best friend, flirt, I love you

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, Sheryl United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2010):

Sheryl agony aunti think it's because you really liked him n you almost loved him so you never wanted to let him go from the minute you saw him, you might have got sick of him but you loved him n you love the way he did certain things xxx

<-- Rate this answer

Add your answer to the question "Why do I still want to hang onto him?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312651000003825!