A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i,ve been with my boyfriend for two years now and right now we have a LDR . i love him and he loves me back. he is faithful and caring but as most men he doesn't show it all the time upto my expectations nor does he have the time for it. i don't know if i have a hormonal problem or mood swings or something but i get occational bouts of emotions ,like being angry in my mind with him, feeling that he doesn't love me anymore . but then he always shows up to love me as usual .its always me getting these strong sense of feeling that the next time he comes to meet me and we're on bed i wont receive the usual love and affection , and sometimes i feel i don't love him anymore and unnecessarily feel anger and jealousy about his past relationships .and when he spends too much time with his friends . is this normal?why do i keep getting horrible feelings even when everything is fine?he tells me to be more occupied,have more fun and always treats me like i'm in someway lesser for which i don't blame him because i have made him feel that .. but why do i keep doubting his love for me.as much as i feel this way i also feel happy and loved half the time -mostly after speaking to him or when he says/does something nice.the funny thing is when we meet i lose all my complaints and love the time we spend together!how do i help myself ?i feel like crying sometimes! is this happening because since the past 1 year we have hardly had any fun activity.its just been sex and then hanging out in the mall.i'm not allowed to go out at night.we've never even gone out for a movie together.he has financial constraints and i don't like him spending much money on us and i'm still a student.should i tell him we should do something different?i'm not sure what is affecting my psychology :( really miss him and feel hopeless until we meet each month!
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reader, shellz  +, writes (24 February 2012):
So my first question would be - how old are you and your LDR boyfriend?
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