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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a good life....love my job, my partner of 6 months and I have an amazing family but for some reason I cant feel happy. I have tried improving myself and feeling happier by losing 6kgs, gettting back into my artwork that I havent done for 7 years, exercising, spending time with friends and spending quality time with my man but nothing seems to cheer me up. I recently had to stop taking the contraceptive pill because it made me get spotting for 3 weeks straight on low calorie diet so I am eating more now. I dont know if its hormone withdrawls making me feel this way or if im getting depression or something. (Iv had it before). Little things really frustrate me and get me down that shouldn't. Things like my partner not coming to bed until late (because I have trouble sleeping without him) and our flatmates making a mess when iv just cleaned the house and my partner not wanting to have sex with me because hes already done it himself and other little things that I shouldn't be so frustrated about. I'm always clenching my teeth, especially in my sleep and I wake up with a sore jaw, I wake up grumpy and go to sleep grumpy. I do'nt want to push my partner away because I love him so much and we have a good relationship apart from the little things I shouldn't let get to me. I dont know whats wrong with me. Help
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reader, myboyfriendsacnt  +, writes (10 May 2013):
Hmmm. Yeah, my partner coming to bed late all the time or not having intercourse with me because he's been jerking would wind me up too. I think your being harsh on yourself by saying these are small things & should admit to yourself that its actually not ok.
Maybe you crave a man that desires you & not some hand action over you?!
Well all I can say is that it's not because e doesn't find u attractive, he just sounds like a boring man.
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