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writes:i like this girl in school and we have been talking on fb for quite sometime...and i make sure that chatting with me is fun. We enjoy chatting and all but the problem is that she never starts the convo whenever i dont and only i have to start it all the time....the other thing is that when we chat, she says she HAS to go and that she will talk again etc etc...but then after we say bye....she is still online for ages.Its not like she is the only girl i chat with but she is the only girl that i love chatting with....and why do i always have to start?? its kind of annoying...i want her to start the convo with me and carry it on for quite some time. how do i get her to approach me ? plz help :) Reply to this Question
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reader, jessie11  +, writes (26 April 2011):
Well I would say that from experience only talking to her on fb is a bad sign. You cannot truely get to know a person just through the internet even though I know it feels a lot easier. Just be confident, be yourself and talk to her in real life and then you will know whether you like each other. I think her being online for ages after she says she has to go doesnt really mean anything - you're definately thinking too much of it. Many people view fb differently. Alot of people do not feel as though it is very personal and therefore are not overly keen on talking to guys on it. I know its true for me. Hope that helps :)
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reader, thomas1214 +, writes (26 April 2011):
aunt honesty has a point with the body language thing if you know what to look for.. but the unfortunate thing is at your age i doubt you know what to look for in body movements. so ya man there is really nothing you can do to make her approach you other then dont talk to her for 3 days but be online. if in those three days she doesnt talk to you then that shows you she doesnt want to. trust me ive been in this situation before and i learned the hard way.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 April 2011):
 Well it could be a case that she is just shy but more realistically I would say that she is talking to you to be polite but that she doesnt actually like you the way that you like her. You are always the one contacting her and she tells you she needs to go but then she is still online this sounds to me like she cant actually be bothered talking to you but that she does it just to be polite.
Do you actually have a friendship with this girl outside of the internet? You say she goes to the same school as you but do you both hang out with each other at school and are you both friends? Reading someones body language is always better than talking over the internet. So suggest that the both of you hang out more and see how she responds. Goodluck.
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