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Why do guys take girls for granted in dating?

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Question - (27 August 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 August 2013)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, *oyie writes:

Why is it that when a guy wants to date you,he will do everything possible to get you and when you finally accept to date him,for sometime he will reduce the things he used to do when he was wooing you like not calling more often and not seeing you more often,because when this begins to happen i start to feel that the person is no longer interested in the relationship,thanks.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (28 August 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwell the theory is the men are hunters and the HUNT is what's the thrill for them.. once they catch you and don't have to work to keep you they relax.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2013):

Here's a little secret.

Guys want most, what they can't have. Yes, we'll go out of our way to woo you.

Once he gets you, he can relax.

What is done to get your attention can't be kept up forever.

You'll get greedy and spoiled.

Once you have his attention, and he knows you like him; and he likes you, there is no reason to text you 24/7.

Some guys like to text, as long as it isn't expected all day long. He has other things to do. You should too.

If a girl comes off as needy, guys lose interest quickly.

That's because he knows he will never have free time, and she will cling to him like lint if he lets her. So he pulls away and lets you know, you don't own him.

If he's too cold; then you gave him too much too soon.

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