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Why do guys ask for pictures of girls? Is he after a naked picture of me?

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Question - (19 December 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 December 2012)
A age 26-29, * writes:

Guys why do you ask for pictures from a girl? Any specific reason? Is it normal for you to ask for a pic from a girl?

I was texting this guy whom I've met a couple of times. He should have a "good look" at me already. So in he midst of the convo he asked me to send him some pictures. I jokingly asked if he wants I see my naked pic. LOL.

I'm not sure if he's up to something bad, like hoping I send him naked pictures, or he just want to have a "recent pic" of me. He wasn't in town when we texted.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2012):

Don't go down that road of sending naked pictures, even if you are joking. Don't ever send a naked picture of yourself over the phone, internet, will be asking for trouble and once its out, there's no turning back unless you don't care, but you should, and have respect for yourself. Anyway, there is nothing wrong with sending a face shot of yourself. He may very well want to attach it to your number so it comes up with your call, or he wants something to look at when he's at work...who knows lol...just be tasteful and classy, not slutty and easy.

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A male reader, nudist1 United States +, writes (19 December 2012):

I agree with candid cally, he just asked you for a pic.

You're the one who mentioned " naked pics ".

So ease up,, if he did ask you for naked pics over texting, that should raise a red flag, don't do it.

It could lead to a lot of embarassing things for you down the road if you were to break up. If you're married that's a different story !!

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A female reader, Candid Cally United States +, writes (19 December 2012):

Perhaps he wanted a picture of you to associate with your contact info on his phone.

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