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writes:Why do committed women touch other men in a sexual way? My wife and I have a close group of six couples as friends. We have spentmany fun hours together, had countless parties even taken vacations together. All r very nice people and married or iv very long term relationships together. However on numerous occAsions some of the other women have dove very sexual things towards me. One sort og grinded her privates on my leg in the jacuzzi with everyone there but they could not see. Another kept placing her hand on my crotch while we were all together on the couch watching a movie. She keptmoving and replacing it until I got hard. A third always pulls my arm into her boobs while we r talking and laughing. That is 1/2 of the six. Why do committed women do this? I sincerely believe they would not cheAt. Should I assume my wife is doing it too?I did not reciprocate, but I don't move away either and in the one case I got hard. I have to admit I liked it but would never want it to go further. My question is why do they do it? What is meant by it? Is my wife likely doing it to their husbands too? I guess I feel a bit niiave about it all
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Oh, one other response: it's not that in the jacuzzi or on the couch I tried to avoid my wife. We all r so comfortable around each other it's just not like a regular party where she and I would necessarily always be by each others side. Also, if I remember correctly, in the jacuz we were all crammed in there with my wife at my side. I had my legs crossed and the other girl sort of straddled my foot that was elevated to her side (if u can picture that).
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Thanks for your comments. To address a few of the issues u raise: these incidents have occured very rarely, just a few times in the 50 or more times we have all been together. I would guess that my wife would say something like, "oh she's just being sill.". And blow it off as not much of anything - unless it became repetitive or was escalAting. I truely do not think these women would cheat, and I kind of suspect maybe they do it to me because it's "safe" to do so. I Am not sure. That is my question, why do committed women do this, and should I assume my wife is too?
In each case I wastoo surprised to think of much to do about it. But, if I am being honest, I did lime it (if somewhat confused by it). I have to stress that these r nice people, definitely not consrvative prudes, but not "sluts" either ( whatever that means). I guess I wouldn't be that mad if my wife did this once in a while. I just don't understand the thinkig/motivation behind it all - as I would never think to graze their boobs, or push my junk into them, or some other equivalent behavior.
So girls, whT's it all about?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Im not sure you really have a right to be worried that your wife might be doing this to other men. You are allowing other women to do it to you! How would your wife feel if she knew you were letting her friends rub themselves on you or touching you until you get hard? probably the same as you would feel if she did it to other men.I would tell your wife what they are doing and stop letting them do it to you in the first place.As for whether or not these women cheat, they aleady are.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 I wonder if your wife even realizes these women are putting the move to you? If she knows about it (which I would find kinda strange) she may feel like it's harmless
flirting among friends. If she does NOT know about it, she might be surprised and a little pissed off if she knew that her so-called friends are crossing the line a bit. Any woman,committed or not, who comes on to a man in this way, is looking for a little side adventure. You say they'd never cheat? I think they would if you were game. So be careful, they may be waiting for you to reciprocate.
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