A
female
age
30-35,
*rtsy
writes:I recently started to like a guy at my school. It's come to my attention that we have a lot in common. I wanted to talk to him about it but I had trouble because he was always surrounded by his friends. On Valentine's Day I was giving lots of friends chocolates and I saw him by himself. I went up to him and asked him about the main thing we have in common and I gave him some chocolate. He used to stare at me last year (I liked another guy at the time) and I didn't do anything about it. This year I hardly see him but after the chocolate thing when I do see him he either does that thing where people don't want you to see their looking at you so they look from their perifial vision or he just stares. I added him on facebook and he accepted. One day I saw he was online. At first he was idle but when he became active I tried to use chat and said "hey." Nothing. A few minutes later he was idle again so I waited. He came back but didn't answer me. I tried again but I wanted to make it clear why I was talking to him. I said:"not trying to bug you but I guess we have some things in common. If you want to talk I'm happy to hear from you. If not it's fine I understand." He again didn't answer. I don't understand why he couldn't have said something! I was a bit chrestfallen. I'm almost embarassed to see him at school next week though I know I won't avoid him because I'm not that cowardly. Why didn't he answer me at all?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 February 2010):
He might not have been there! Or he might have been really shy about it. You're making a big deal out of something so trivial. Talk to him to his face again.
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