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*mcurioustoo
writes:My cousin bre is a compulsive liar and is acting up constantly she's been sneaking out at night lying to her mom dating a 23 year old child molseter who raped a 12 year old and the sick part is .. Is that she's fully aware of that fact.. She just got sent away to upstate florida to be with her dad for the summer but she still keeps bothering me and saying things like the whole family hates you and talks about you.. We all laugh about you.. And it hurts my feelings .. Im tired of her crap she even tried messing around with my boyfrind of over a year so not only is she a disgrace to the family but a whore to.. She hands out blow jobs like handshakes its humiliating bcuz she's family and those rumors get around school and I have to hear about it ughhhh I need advice please help me out
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reader, imcurioustoo +, writes (23 June 2009):
imcurioustoo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice ill take it .. Its just she disgusts me .. And I do nothing to her to deserve that treatment and it upsets me a lot I mean its completely uncalled for.... I mean what can I do though its not like I can just remove her from my life .. She's family that's never gonna change so it sucks.. I just want her to do better and be a happy person and she makes that impossible bcuz she's so naive and immature she thinks she has things figured out but she really doesn't so it pisses me off badly .. Idk what else to do with her she's damn near immpossible to get anything through to her
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reader, girly17 +, writes (22 June 2009):
 wow.....it seems as if she has some issues. Now i'm not saying that to be mean. It probably does hurt because she is family and more than likely means a lot to you. But you have to learn to look past the bad actions that others do, and try to see inside who they really are and what their reason is for doing the things that they do. It sounds to me like she might be jelouse of you. But if I was you I just wouldn't give her the pleaser of making you feel bad and putting you down and stuff. Keep telling yourself that you know what she is doing is completely wronge but learn to love even though there are defaults in her. And I don't know the reason why she acts that way but there is always a core reason deep down on why someone acts the way they do. I know that rumors at school hurt i have been threw so many and they suck, but u should come to realize that the people who are your TRUE friends won't diss on you or change their mind of opinion on u because of these rumors. The fact that she lies a lot is not a good sign of a healthy life style, sounds to me like she is struggling with a lot of her own problems inorder to be lying to herself, and not loving herself at all by dating someone who is clearly bad news for her. So my suggestion to you is just to love nomatter what, because love never fails. And just prey for her if u are christian :)
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