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Why did it take so long to figure out my sexuality?

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Question - (11 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2010)
A male United States age , *avenu writes:

I often wondered why my m/f love life was not working. Then I had an affair with another man and gave my self completely to him, it was wonderful. My only question is why it took so long? Could I have known any sooner or what might have been a tip off to me?

Thanks Dave

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (11 September 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntI would imagine it took so long because you simply went down the expected track along with all of your friends and aquaintances. You say you always wondered why your love life wasn't working and that wondering was your clue but based on your lifestyle and knowledge of yourself at the time you worked on different areas to "fix" your love life all the while vering off your true love path.

Please don't worry that it took you so long just embrace your new found freedom and enjoy it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010):

Can you please tell me ,if you had a wife? Did you have sex with woman all this time ,and you didn't know it? I need your help,because my husband might be in the same situation. Thanks

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A male reader, der_zyniker United States +, writes (11 September 2010):

Well judging by your age if you had been gay as a child you would have be tormented. You might have just been in a state of denial without even knowing it.

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