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writes:Hello. I just stumbled onto this site, and I need help, with something.I had an awkward dream, involving my ex. I don't know why, but, I was friends with her in this dream. Just friends. And, in the dream, we were playing around (And, we're both out of teenhood, here. Like, we're adults. Both of us.). Anyways, playing around, having fun, and laughing. I find it strange, as I don't have any positive thoughts, about her, in reality. So, why did I have this dream, when I viewed friendship with my ex as a positive? Please, help, as I really want this girl out of my brain! Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2012): I am the Original Poster, and I have another question. When the impact of being dumped by her was still fresh, in my system, my ex and I had taken a bold chance, at trying to chat. And, she said that she missed talking to me. But, I don't understand what it meant? If she treasured chatting with me so much, why didn't she try to be as honest as she could be? Thanks, in advance.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 It was just a dream and it doesn't mean anything. Your subconscious mind just chose to focus on the happier times that you had and that was that. Don't try too hard to push her out of your mind, it just seems like you still like her(even though you're denying it). If you are over someone and you want them out of your life, it just happens like that, without any effort. Just accept the dream as what it was, a dream. If the girl doesn't matter to you in any way, then how does the interpretation of the dream matter?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2012): Perhaps your subconscious is getting you to stop negative thoughts about her, think positive ones about the relationship, the happy times.Beats being bitter and you can let go with a smile,put it down to experience
Your brain tidys up sort of thing when asleep.
Don't worry about it.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Dreams are from your subconcious, when you first met your ex you were probably friends and this dream is reflecting that fact.
As you grew apart and broke up, then had this dream, suggests to me you probably were "reminded" something in waking reality of her or a situation similar to her, which prompted this dream to come about (a way your subconcious brain works to filter and file stuff away from your concious state).
I really wouldnt worry about it, just accept it as a dream and let go of it.
Hope this helps!
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