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writes:k so.. my boyfriend always talks to me like he is totally in love with me, always tells me he loves me, never wants to leave me, we aren't to far in the relationship and he already wants to engage to me, already wants kids with me [even though he has another on the way] Super romantic, if i don't want/ am not comfortable with something he won't rush it.. he will wait until im ready even if it takes along time. He seems pretty responsible [except for his drinking habits which makes me mad.] I truly love this guy with all my heart. Personally I cannot see myself with any other guy.. but the thing is I love him soo much, I get jealous easily. He always talks about his son thats on the way which is a good thing.. but since it is with another girl, and I know he has feelings still for her, it kinda makes me jealous.. he goes there two times a week .. and on photos he comments I miss you.. and all his status's are I feel lonely with out you.. what should I doo? If I talk to him about it he will deny every bit.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 This guy is slime. He left his pregnant girlfriend AND strings her along to toy with her emotions, then immediately gets a new girlfriend who he also intends to impregnate. It's not romantic, he's a control freak. There are guys who are serial fathers. They get woman after woman pregnant, promising them a family together, then leaves them once they can't get an abortion/are emotionally attached to the pregnancy and/or child. It's a way to control her, since she will be tied to him FOREVER. He will always be able to contact her and play the family card. Run away while you still can.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (1 March 2012):
This guy must be a charmer because he's sucked you right in and unless you get out of this relationship now, you are going to get hurt.
He has a baby on the way with a girl he still has feelings for and he has drinking habits.
You don't say how long you've been together (Im assuming it's six months or less) but it already seems too long.
How can you say after such a short time that you truly love him with your own heart and can't see yourself with any other guy? I think cos you've been sucked in.
Him telling you he wants marriage and kids within this short spell to me clearly shows things are not right his end either.
Do the sensible thing before it's too late.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Wait a minute, so he is the sort of man that dumps his pregnant girlfriend and gets with another girl before the child is even born? He is a drinker? And he is going behind your back talking to his ex in an inappropriate manner?
This guy couldnt be more wrong for you, and there is no hope for this relationship if it has started out so badly. Do you really want to have a future with a man who would dump a pregnant girlfriend? Can you imagine if you had kids with him, he would probably dump you as well whilst pregnant and go off with another girl!
When his son is born it is going to bring him even closer to his ex girlfriend, they will be spending a lot more time together and his feelings will become stronger for her as she is the mother of his child. It sounds like they already have a close relationship and he clearly still has feelings for her.
I can tell if you stay in this relationship you are only going to get hurt, it is only going to get harder for you once the child is born.
Get out now while you can, there will be plenty of other guys out there for you who dont have so much baggage.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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