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anonymous
writes:For the first time the other day i gave my boyfriend of 6 months a blow job...he started to hold my head and at times push my head down?when he pushes my head down what does this mean?is it because hes enjoying it?or is it because its not good enough and hes tryin to make it better?please help!xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo i was comfortable with it as long as it was a good intention by him... if it wasnt then i wouldnt have been cofortabe with it at all, because id rather him just tell me, if u get what im saying :P
good i hope he enjoyed it ;) lol
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (1 October 2008):
 When you are receiving oral, do you just lie there passively or grab his head and pull him closer as well?
If you weren't uncomfortable with it, then it was just part of the act. Part of it might be an attempt to deepthroath you.
If he wasn't forcing you against your will, it is just sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): Congrats! He loves it, don't worry! He's so into that he can't even help himself. GOOD JOB, GIRL! :-D
I don't think you need a tip, but this is something I do: While giving my bf head, I also use my hand, to massage. He loves it. Just something you can try if you'd like.
Also, keep this is mind: Men love blow jobs, keeps them very happy with their partner. :-)
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (1 October 2008):
 I'm quite sure that he was enjoying this, but, frankly, by writing this letter, YOU weren't comfortable with what happened. It would seem like he lost his composure and got so involved in the moment that he didn't realize that another human being was involved in the whole process. You ARE involved, in every moment, and you need to speak up when something doesn't feel right to you. If you are uncomfortable, or gagging, or just feel over controlled, then stop the blow job and tell him how you are feeling. This is your mutual sex life. You need to express to each other how you feel about it. You aren't the hired help or waiting for a report card, so speak up!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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