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Why can't he give me a second chance?

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Question - (19 August 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, *eartbroken101 writes:

i'm in love with my ex but he has a new girlfriend and says that he is with her now and cant just leave her now and hurt her.

and i asked if he loved me still and would give me a second chance because i was so deeply sorry about what i did....and he said it doesn't matter if i love you or not i can't.

i dont know what it meansss!! pleaseee someone help me. any comments appreciated. thanks for reading!

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A female reader, heartbroken101 Australia +, writes (20 August 2010):

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heartbroken101 agony auntyes i hurt him alot. but he said that he's carried my letters around with him everyday and he always reads them. he said that he still cares about me and really wants to remain friends. how can i get him back :(

he dumped me over text message cause he said that he thought if he did it face to face i would say something to change his mind! :(

is that good or bad? im so confused please help i wanna die.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010):

If he has a new girlfriend then that means he is still hurt from i dated this girl how is doing the same thing an ex is a ex you cant just go back to them every time you change your mind. And what i think "i cant" means he realy liked you and it just wont be the same

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A male reader, xnickx United States +, writes (19 August 2010):

xnickx agony auntit means move on to someone else.

You hurt him. In time, maybe it will heal. So if you really love him that much, you'll need to give him time to think it over, have a few other girlfriends, then decide whether he was happier with them or with you.

In the meantime i think you should go find someone else and see if you cant get your mind off of him.

Nick.

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A male reader, Western3589 United States +, writes (19 August 2010):

Western3589 agony auntHe is more worried about hurting his new girlfriend then going back to you.

Which either means he still loves you but doesn't want to hurt her, or whatever you did hurt him slot and he doesn't want to go back to you. Maybe that's what he means by cant

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