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Why do girls give oral sex?

Q.   do girls give guys bj's because they want to or do they just do it to make the guys feel good in a relationship...

A.   5 October 2008:  My current girlfriend says giving oral is her very favourite thing. When I asked why she said it's because she likes being in control, and I guess it's because she likes giving pleasure. In truth I don't find blow-jobs that pleasurable, I'd much... (read in full...)

Why do I go soft at the critical moment?

Q.   Hi, my girlfriend and i have been together for about 2 years (on and off). Im 16 and she's 15. its a little concern of mine which could turn into a majour concern. We've done stuff other than sex and its all gone fine but when it comes to interco...

A.   5 October 2008:  I disagree with the good Dr Vendetta. I don't think it is a mental thing, or at least the mental side is not as important as the physical factors. Indeed it does help to be in a safe and comfortable environment in order to maintain a good erec... (read in full...)

Why can he not cum all the time?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years, we have a 3 year old son together and I'm 26 weeks pregnant with our second child. Just recently I've noticed he doesn't always cum during sex, we usually have sex about three times a week. A couple of ...

A.   5 October 2008:  I agree with qcumber1. I enjoy having sex every day with my girlfriend, but I don't cum every time. There is no way I could do that every day, I would be knackered! Withholding orgasm is a great way for a man to develop stamina and experience many... (read in full...)

I give him oral, but he doesn't orgasm. Why not?

Q.   right i have just started giving my boyfriend (of 6 months) blow jobs, i have gave him two so far but he hasnt ever cum. he seems like he enjoys it because recently when i did it he was gripping hold of the metal bars on his bed and holding my h...

A.   5 October 2008:  Speaking for myself, blow-jobs are over-rated. The sensation of entering a vagina is much more pleasurable, and much more likely to lead to an orgasm. So, basically it's not a problem if he doesn't cum, I'm sure he is enjoying it anyway. My phil... (read in full...)

I get orgasms from porn but not from my boyfriend. Why?

Q.   I don't get turned on at all nor do I climax during sex. I usually get wet at the beginning but after a short while I dry up and I lose interest and things start to get mechanical. I just can't seem to be in the mood for sex. I'm not sure if it has ...

A.   5 October 2008:  As the male partner is usually the active one during sex, his movements and actions are usually designed to stimulate himself. Perhaps you should take control more when you are at it and find positions that get you going. Have you tried going on t... (read in full...)

How can I learn to like giving blow jobs and how can I develop a healthy libido again?

Q.   I am 18 and I have been married for a little more than a year. We have a baby boy who is almost one years old. I got pregnant the first time I had sex and I think that maybe that really damaged my libido. It's really hard for me to get in the ...

A.   5 October 2008:  Now, personally, blow-jobs are not my favourite thing. For me the feeling of entering a vagina is many orders of magnitude more pleasurable. And I'm actually in the awkward position of having a girlfriend who loves giving blow-jobs! I find them... (read in full...)

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