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female
age
30-35,
*arasexypants
writes:Hi, I'm 14 and I've got a pretty stupid question, well it's not really a question I just want advice on what to do. I'm pretty young, in 9th grade and in school I constantly see this one guy that I beleive is a junior, (11th grade.) Now, just know that I am not shallow... at all. But the first time I saw him in the hall way he gave me the cutest smile anyone has ever given me. Ever since then I can't stop thinking about him. I never ever ever like people easily. So why do I feel something from this one guy I don't even know?.. at all. I see him in the hall ways a lot and I always catch him staring at me and when I look at him he quickly looks away. I really am not the type of girl who goes crazy over a guy and I have just got out of a 4 year relationship and it is difficult for me to like guys, but I can't stop thinking of him...Has anyone ever been in my situation before?Just reply saying anything please! Reply to this Question
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reader, Charmayne  +, writes (8 October 2007):
Hi there Sara~
Sure~ I have been there" numerous times. When we have not yet had a chance to get to know someone we are able to dream about our "ideal" kind of guy. Take the opportunity to become aware of what it is that you are looking for in a relationship.
Chances are this guy does like you, given the small sample of body language you wrote about. Tho it also sounds as tho you want some time out for yourself, given your recent break up - good move. I think it is always great to make a meaningful friendship when the timing is right.
Interesting tho, that you comment about not being shallow, yet your id includes the term "sexypants"...soz, but me finds this contradictory.
talk anytime, hope this helps,
char
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): I'd have to say that I've been in the same boat in highschool. I had a few "crushes" that I'd only ever seen and rarely talked to. It's flattering to think that a guy might have an interest in you (especially if he is cute!). As for what do do, if it's bugging you enough and you are a pretty confident person, why not say something to him next time you pass by? Just a friendly hi even. Getting to know him might help get him out of your head (who knows, he could be a complete jerk! or he could turn out to become a good friend).
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