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Why am I having this recurring dream, for 2 years? What's the reason?

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Question - (23 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2007)
A female Singapore age 30-35, *irl Pants writes:

Firstly, this question is gonna be really weird.

I have been having this dream for almost 2 years already.

In the dream, there's me and a guy, hugging on a flight of stairs. We were hugging in the light rain and he kept whispering to me, "Everything will be alright, i'll come get you".

I really don't know what's the purpose of the dream, but i have found the place where the dream had taken place. It was at the local university. Sometimes, when i fell trouble and down, i'd go there; hoping that guy in the dream would appear.

I know it's crazy but i'm falling for him. Falling for someone who might not exist. Well, the dream has been reccuring for 2 years already and i feel so dependent on him for emotional support.

Why am i having this recurring dream, for 2 years? What's the reason?

What are the chances that the guy in my dream exist?

What does he mean by saying, "I'll come for you?"

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A female reader, Girl Pants Singapore +, writes (24 April 2007):

Girl Pants is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Girl Pants agony auntA big thank you to those who have answered to my question. ;)

Thanks!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007):

Hi there,

You might like to message AskEve as I have read a couple of dream interpretations from her in the past and they seemed to make a lot of sense :)

I used to have a reoccurring dream for about 10 years(!) of my life, I had kind of got used to it as a part of me but during last summer it finally ended differently and ever since that night it never came back. For me the dream symbolised a part of my me that I wasn't really ready to understand yet but looking back on it now it all seems so clear, I wish I'd have understood its meaning long ago! I really have to thank my unconscious mind for giving me that dream :) Message AskEve, I'm sure she can help you :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007):

Talk to a counsellor. I know that sounds a bit blunt but get this talked about before it turns into an obsession. It is allowing you to avoid life and it needs to be addressed.

You aren't mad and other people have had exactly the same thing happen before. It may be that you aren't happy about parts or all of your life and this is your way of fantasising your way out of it.

Good luck.

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