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Who's the daddy?

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Question - (18 December 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2006)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Here's a confusing one.My partner and I have been trying to conceive for about 12 months.

I had my last period on the 6th November. I slept with my partner a couple of times over the next 2 weeks, then I had a mad moment which I totally regret and had drunken intercourse with another man (don't even remember if he came).

This was on the 23rd November. However he has had a vasectomy (2 yrs ago) and also I took the morning after pill within 12 hours of the intercourse.

I found out I was pregnant on the 15th December and obviously I WANT to be over the moon - but I feel like I am going to worry for the next 9 months because I dont know who the father is but it could be very obvious when born because the guy I slept with is quarter Jamaican.

Does anyone think it could be that I was pregnant by the time i took the morning after pill? How likley is it that I would become pregnany from a guy who had a vasecotmy - AND I took the morning after pill.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006):

How is that confusing? But, honestly I don't think you're quite ready to be a responsible parent, anyway. No offense, but, you don't sound like the most loyal and trustworthy partner out there. I advise you to get your act together and work on sorting your life out one step at a time, hun.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006):

This is a tricky one... I am surprised that you are pregnant after taking the morning after pill in this cycle, regardless of the father's ID??? Did you have any bleeding after taking the morning after pill? It doesn't sound like it, since you said that your LMP was on 6 November.

I would suggest you contact the jamaican fellow and ask him to go for a sperm analysis, to confirm that he is definitely sterile. If that is the case then you are most probably OK. Good luck

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