A
male
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:Ok recently she hurt me real bad, asked me to move on because she is in love with her bf. I told her I cant forget her and it still hurts me. She told me to concentrate on my studies for now and not talk about this for the time being. Then one day her bf got mad at her because she changed her relationship status to single on facebook without him knowing. He kept calling asking for her password and she cant take it and just gave him the password. I asked her,"can you still tolerate him?" She really cant tolerate him and dont want to fight with him until her exams are over. Then suddenly she started to be nice and sweet to me again. On msn, her personal message was "NEVER WANNA LEAVE YOU, CONFUSED". I dont know whom is she referring to, her bf or me?. She told me, I dont know what is in her mind, her heart and what is she thinking about and she said its for me to find out and she dosent wanna tell me. I AM CONFUSED HERE, SHE WANT HER BF OR ME??... AND HER BF IS CONTROLLING HER AND SHE HAD ALREADY INITIATED TO BRAKE UP A FEW TIMES AND HE DOSENT WANT... I AM CONFUSED! AND I REALLY LOVE HER A LOT. PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS PLEASE!! THANK YOU VERY MUCH! :)
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (4 November 2009):
 It really is up to her what she wants and i also think she has to think very carefully about this boyfriend as well as been controlling, he is demanding her password to keep tabs on her she has to see this is an unhealthy relationship and she is just accepting it.
Her anger quickly turns to love though when she talks to you, but still seems confused.
She is trying to deal with too many things at the one time here, your studies, the boyfriend, and you! something has to give and i feel she is just accepting this boyfriend to have a quiet life.
Maybe it is best to get your studies over with because that is important and when they are over with then you can meet up and talk about things, meanwhile still be her friend, keep in touch etc: but really i think you and her need a break from all this hassle.
Gina
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