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Where is this infamous G spot?

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Question - (29 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *jLady writes:

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So I have this little.. mmmh not problem but predicament, I've heard, read and seen a lot of women that say that having g spot orgasms are mind blowing, that it's the best orgasm they will ever get.

I've been trying to find my g spot but I don't know if I'm doing it right, I really want to experience it, I want to know what everybody is talking about.

I started to look for it and I found a spot that felt a little rough, I applied pressure to it and I suddenly had the urge to pee again.. I was stimulating it for a while and did feel for breve moment a very good sensation, but it came and went, and the urge to pee was more intense, I was getting tired after a while and just stopped and started to stimulate my clit, then tried it again, I was not feeling a lot of pleasure to tell you the truth, I kept on stimulating that area and suddenly felt like I was peeing... I'm not sure if it was pee or not.

I didn't feel any intense pleasure really.

I still want to try it, I know that stimulating the g spot can also make a woman squirt, I'm not sure whether or not I did squirt because I didn't feel anything special at that moment, the area where I though I found my g spot because of the texture was right above my vagina wall at the entrance, like maybe less than an inch or an inch from that... So I'm confused, since I don't know how it feels I'm kinda in a rut :|

I'm tempted to buying those g spot stimulating gels and maybe a g spot vibrator, but I'm not sure after reading some reviews of the products that they are any good at stimulating the g spot even though they say it does (since like I mentioned before, that rough area is just at the entrance on the top of the inside of my vagina) I'm not sure it even was my g spot.

I need a little advise and some opinions to see if I felt was something close g spot or if it was just a false alarm and also if can find my g spot and how ... I feel like I'm missing out on something very pleasurable..

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A female reader, ladyRi Russian Federation +, writes (5 November 2010):

Anatomically the g-spot is the posterior fornix of your vagina. And the length from your vaginal opening to the g-spot varies in different women. That's why most women prefer a longer and a fuller one. I climax from my g-spot that's if I'm the one on top taking control and directing and positioning the stuff to my posterior fornix.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010):

Well, you could start by reading some of the BOOKS on the subject of the G Spot! It is easier to find AFTER you've had a few "regular" (clitoral) orgasms first. Sound too hard? You really don't need the G Spot anyway.

But if you do,

Squirting is a real pain in the ass, although most women say it comes with "better" orgasms... Just move your ass over to his side of the bed, so HE gets the wet spot! Enjoy!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010):

Lots of talk about the G-Spot.

But, the clitoris is where pretty much most of the action takes place and on the surrounding tissues.

Here is some really good advice...from an expert (because I'm so old I'm ready to die).

Ignore all the hyped articles in Cosmo, etc, and online crap that you can't trust.

Bottom line about all spots is this; explore your body yourself, and don't be squeamish, and if in a relationship do it with the other person. If rubbing or touching a spot gives you pleasure then rub it, touch it, or have someone else do it in the manner which pleases you the most, and enjoy your sex life.

Some people think one type of orgasm is "mind blowing" over another. Certainly there are differences between orgasms. However, much of that is psychological and has to do with the buildup, the relaxation state, the overall mood, and many other factors. Less to do with the actual "spot" vs. another "spot". Most of the activity that leads to orgasm is in your head and nervous tissue. You are different than the next person in line at the grocery store as well. What works for one person doesn't work for another.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (30 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntHi every woman is different others find it a better orgasm through there clitiros while others find it better through there g spot. To be honest with you though not all women can actually orgasm through there g spot therefore you might be in for a bit of a disapointment am afraid. It sounds like you were spot on and you did find your g spot but it just didnt do it for you sorry to break the bad news to you.

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