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anonymous
writes:Ever since me and my ex have stopped talking (i stopped talking to him) he has been following me sometimes at his work, in public and going to the plaza alone alot (without his gf when he used to always have her with him). he always seems to be in the same places i end up in, and he goes 2 blocks just to get coffee which is near where i always used to hangout, when theres a coffee shop right near his work! but he decides to go 2 blocks for some!...and he constantly stares at me everytime we see each other! why is he doing all of this? is he obsessed with me?
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reader, MyDaysOnceRevolvedAroundYou  +, writes (10 June 2012):
 How long were you together? It's quite possible that you two still just go to the same places, especially if you live closely and enjoyed the same interests.
If it starts to concern your safety and he begins making threatening contact with you, then call your local authorities for help, this can be called harassment if it is threatening or in any way violent.
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reader, Miss Johnson  +, writes (10 June 2012):
 I think this is stalker behaviour. Make sure you report this to as many friends and family members as possible. Also keep record of each moment. Possibly he may be obsessed with you. Maybe you should change your daily routines especially if you are uncomfortable. And in his mind he maybe trying to figure out why you are not talking to him but he is an ex why would he even expect you to continue contact. He's not over you. Just be careful and avoid him and as much eye contact with him as possible.
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reader, avogado +, writes (10 June 2012):
Running into him and having awkward eye contact are hardly signs that he's into you. 'Following' is an iffy term to use unless you have specifics. Was he ghosting you or you just saw each other?
No offence, but get your head out of your own behind. He's moved on, you should too. He could just be at those places because he was introduced to them and prefers them to his usual hangouts.
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