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When we were having sex she did some anal play on me and now I feel weird about it..any thoughts?

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Question - (11 December 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2007)
A male , *antino writes:

I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time at the weekend and when she was masturbating me she put her finger in my anus. I really liked it but now i feel weird. I feel like ive done something wrong. Is it ok, i mean am i stressing about nothing? Does this happen all the time, do other guys like this? Thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007):

If it really makes you feel uncomfrotable that have some other ideas that may make it more enjoyable Feeling comfortable in an act involving a very precious part of our bodies must be take so seriously; girla snd guys the same.

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A female reader, scared16 +, writes (16 December 2006):

scared16 agony auntif u like it go 4 it theres absolutely nuthin wrong. However, if u feel uncomfortable with it thn thas not so gd. x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006):

Well, you feel you've done something wrong because of the homosexuality concept that goes with anal sex. HOWEVER, it is totally 'normal' for straight guys to have stuff shoved up their butt. Mind you, I would also feel awkward too. NO ONE IS GOING TO TOSS MY SALAD! 8S

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A female reader, camille United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2006):

camille agony auntThat's where a man's G spot is so I wouldn't worry. Men think that liking anything to do with their anus means they're gay but that's not the case. If you like it, don't worry about it! Most people don't like the idea of it so they don't try, but ....find if they do try, they do like....so just do what you like!

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A male reader, Dagwood South Africa +, writes (11 December 2006):

Dagwood agony auntNo problem, enjoy! Maybe you can try a little on her and she might enjoy it too! The anus is a very erogenous zone. Your'e normal just relax.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006):

I think it is ok, but she did this on a first date? That kind of a high level of intimacy to take things to right off the bat, you do have to wonder what the girl's history is. Studies show that 100% of women in pornography have been sexually abused.

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