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writes:I'm 16 and I have only had a couple of relationships, reason being I am generally busy most of the time. I went out with a girl a couple of years ago and it didn't last long and we didn't really know each other all that well. Only now the tables have changed and it's me who likes her a lot!! She, on the other hand, has barely been single for the past for the last couple of years, having a fair few boyfriends - although she is very clever and knows how to handle herself. We both get on really well and have heart to hearts every so often. We now know each other really well. I asked her out and she says she doesn't want to get into another relationship for a while and wants to be single. I respect that but I really have feelings for her. She says that it could happen in the future between us but she turned me down. She was genuinely sorry but I can't help but like her a lot and feel generally down about the whole thing. I am mainly looking for a male opinion or words of wisdom on this - but female opinion or advice is much appreciated!! Only my Dad passed away and I find it hard talking to other guys for advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (8 June 2006):
 dear reader.
first of all i'm sorry for the lose of your dad not an easy time for anyone to deel with.
now down to the really question at hand. your still very young to worry about things like this but i know the feeling is very real for you so i will try to help as much as i possibly can. if a girl has turned you down it does mean to say never just not for now you said yourself she has had a few boyfriends may-be she does need the break. the best you can do for now is be a friend ( a good friend) make sure she see's the real you so if in the future things get serious between you she hasn't got any "surprises" waiting for her if you really have true strong feelings for her you won't find this so hard love is a complecated thing and sometimes we just have to wait for the best things in life. But i will say this if someone else does come along in the meantime don't push her away give things a go and also share your feelings with this other girl you like just to show her what could be. i hope i've been some help to you and i hope you get what you want in the end
all the best xxx
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