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When other people are cool towards me...I think they don't like me! Do I need more confidence?

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Question - (13 September 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 September 2006)
A female Ireland, anonymous writes:

ive had some issues with confidence relationship wise and friendship wise!

i find eveytime any1s cold towards me or a bit off i immeditly think they dont like me anymore!

its like im always waiting 4 them to dump me or stop being my friend

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A female reader, camille United Kingdom +, writes (14 September 2006):

camille agony auntWhat is it about yourself that you think they don't like? You need to work out why you feel that the way people are has anything to do with you. Do you find that you are clingy? Do you have many friends? I think confidence building would definitely help. Write a list of all the positive things about yourself and then tell yourself in the mirror how great you are. You can't control how other people are but you can do something about yourself. There are loads of books about the subject. Good Luck.

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A male reader, Herr Professor +, writes (14 September 2006):

Herr Professor agony auntYou definitely need more confidence, sweetie, and maybe a bit of counseling to uncover why you're insecure. Most people have off days and are cool or indifferent because they aren't feeling their best. It probably has nothing to do with you.

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