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writes: i went on date with this girl i met once before. all went well. i really wanna see her again soon but when is the right time to phone or arrange date? also when is it right to tell her i love her? how do i know if she does? any signs to pick up? Reply to this Question
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reader, xLEAHx  +, writes (28 January 2007):
 There's no time limit on arranging a second date if all went well on the first one and you really got on and liked eachother then give her a call now..As for telling her you love her i think you should ease up on that..firstly you have only had a first date with this girl how do you know you really love her? your proberly infactuated and obsessed with her at this time and you think you love this person but its not really love,you don't wanna come across as being too clingy or you might find if you told her you love her it might scare her off..so my advise would be to arrange this second date as soon as,then on the same night arrange to see each other on a regular basis then when the times right after a while tell her your falling in love with her,your know when its the right time to tell her eventully.
Good luck
xLEAHx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (28 January 2007):
 Ask her about the second date as soon as you like but as for the big L, slow it down. You don't love her after one date, you just like her a lot. If you tell her you love her now you'll scare her off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): give it a few days to ask her out again! She if she's keen if she's not dont sweat it ok!! she's not the only one for you OK!
you will know she loves u when she wants to get closer to you! Dont try to force things you have your whole life ahead of you! Let love grow and dont expect a date to be instant love or your in for some huge disappointments in life! Good luck and remember keep cool be yourself and treat her well!
From
The Romance King
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (28 January 2007):
 Hi there,
In my personal opinion, I think ANYtime is the right time to ask fo a second date. Well, okay... if you call her up at 4am Monday morning, breathing heavy and such... well, that's not the right time. But screw the "three day rule". If you had a good time, you go ahead, call her up, tell her you had fun and arrange another time to meet up.
As for dropping the "L-Bomb"... well, I'd wait on that. Bringing it up after one date would skeeve me out a little bit. You need to wait for a couple of months, to make sure you're relationship is sturdy and give yourself some time to validate those feelings. I do encourage you to tell her how much you like her and enjoy her company. What woman doesn't want to hear that?
Good luck, sweetness. You sound like a nice guy.
xxIndia
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