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writes: I have been seeing a lad on and off for the past 3 years. We was both with someone when it started, we both split with our exes but we was still friends. He met someone else and we carried on having an affair. Cut a story short, a month ago he splits from his ex. He has a 3 year old girl, all of sudden he has cut me off says he wants time on his own to deal with this. I have texted him and he doesn't reply. I'm getting to the point where I am starting to wonder, is he worth it? And the relationship, it was good before all this started. He stayed in it for the sake of his daughter. My heart is telling me one thing and my head something else. Any advice would help!!!
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reader, rphillips +, writes (13 May 2005):
Having an affair is hard work. Maybe he just couldn't handle it any more. Maybe he got caught. Maybe he realized that seeing two women was not the best thing to do. Maybe he is trying to decide which women he wants to be with. Maybe he met someone else.I wish I could give you some advice that would make your heart stop hurting. But the thing is I can't. I know about having affairs. And I have never seen one that has ended happily ever after. All I can say, is try to give him time and get on with your life.
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