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writes:I have a weird problem, i dont know whats wrong please help.i have a boyfriend his awesome his the best he makes me smile so much and i just love him so much, but since yesterday whenever he says he loves me it doesnt quite feel the same i dont know whats wrong.could it be i just nervous to be meeting his son.his sons 2months and 7days old..his 16.i love him lots i dont care that he has a baby but i really love him and i dont want to lose him.does anyone know why i could be feeling this whenever he says he loves me?.thankyou. Reply to this Question
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 Hey :)
Woah now, that's a bit of a complicated situation you've got there! Maybe you're feeling uneasy because he just had a kid with another girl. It could be that you're afraid of losing him, because you feel he might want to be with the mother of his child. You haven't really given any information about this girl, was she his girlfriend, was it a one night stand etc?
Maybe you're just feeling threatened by her. Meet his son, spend time with your boyfriend. Talk to him about feeling uneasy lately, once he lets you know he's not going anywhere, you'll probably feel better :)
To be honest, you're going to have a lot of things to think about at your age. 13/14 is a hard age because everyone's growing up and changing at different rates so some people seem immature and some are acting like they're 18 already. If you're 15 then you'll have exams to think about pretty soon. I know you say you love him, but can you handle this standard teenage stuff, as well as a boyfriend with a young child? It's a lot of stuff to deal with at such a young age.
Hope this helped you :)
xxx
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