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writes:Im sexually frustrated. When i dont have sex for long periods of time, i become very angry and rude. For example, one time i broke my kitchen window n my dishes cuz i didnt get laid. Its been a week since i had sex. My bf hasnt been over. He knows how i get when i dont get none for a long time. How can i get self control over this? Any suggestions? Please dont say for me to use toys or finger myself cuz it doesnt work for me. Lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): You need help. It seems like you have a sexual addiction.Get some couseling very fast!
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reader, ShadowGoddess231 +, writes (15 January 2010):
 Meant girl number one and girl number too thus your fingers! Finger yourself, or get a hand-held shower head and use it to get your sweet spot, or get a vibrator, whatever just get your self to cum and few or how ever many time you can stand and if you can suck on your own tits. There is lots of sex stores out there get some toys and there you go! Cuz girl men don't revolve your pussy! If you don't get any you don't get any. I hope this helps.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (15 January 2010):
Hmmm...any sort of abuse in your past? It's not normal to be angry the way that you are over not having sex, especially only after a week. If you were me, you probably would have killed someone by now! You really should find some sort of counseling.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (15 January 2010):
 Honestly, I'd go see a counselor for that..I think it's normal to crave or want sex after a short period of time, but the getting violent and angry over it is not really that healthy. does that mean that when you aren't dating someone you just find someone random to satisfy your urges before you break stuff? I think you should find out the roots of your anger regarding lack of sex. that kind of codependency is not healthy it's an obsession; read into love/sex addiction for further information.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (15 January 2010):
 Well I was going to say get the job done yourself but if that not an option then try to plan out the week so you two have time for sex more often, I don't think he would mind. This is actually a problem that both women and men can face.
You could look into a anger management course but I don't know how well it will relate. Or just try to focus on keeping your mind somewhere else until you are able to see him again.
I hope you find something that works.
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