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writes:Hi I am curious to know why some men like to slap women around the face when having sex,do they have some sort of problem or are they violent types and like to dominate women do they care about the person they are hitting or is it just some sexual thrill they are getting.What sort of woman doesn't mind this behaviour as well
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2011): I like to do it sometime because it feels like I got all the power over her. Ofcourse it's lite slapping I mean I don't want to hurt her or anything.
If he really hits you than it's kind of a problem. CindyCares got a good solution how you can say to him what will happen if he'll slap you and you don't like it
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 If I ever meet a guy who gets aroused from slapping my face, - I'll tell him that I find punching testicles a huge turn on. He can slap my face if I can punch his groin. Hard :).
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reader, adamantine +, writes (7 June 2011):
 Yeah, slapping the butt is OK, but the face? Nope. No one slaps my face unless they wanna be slapped back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2011): I don't think i would find face slapping much of a turn on and have never had a relationship with anyone into doing that. Light playful slapping on the rear is one thing. But if someone randomly started slapping my face while i was in 'the zone' it would bring me round like a bucket of cold water and really ruin the moment!
I imagine slapping different parts of the anatomy tells us different things about the 'slapee' but i am not sure what face slapping says about a guy.
When you think about it though, slapping someones face is usually associated with 'bringing them to their senses'. Or a knee jerk reaction to anger. So maybe it is done to bring you out of your state of arousal for some strange reason. Or because the man in question has an issue with suppressed anger?
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reader, busy04  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 Slapping the rear end is a turn on for some. Slapping the face? I'm not so sure about that. But there may be some women & men who enjoy it. To each his own, as long as serious physical harm is not caused.
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reader, Odds +, writes (7 June 2011):
 Unless you're talking real, bruising slaps, it's not a violent thing. It's just part of cutting loose for some people, part of the more animalistic side of our nature. Generally speaking, in bed, men like being dominant and women like being submissive. Obviously this isn't everyone, but you get the idea. A bit of roughness is just part of cutting loose, like biting, hair-pulling, or clawing at each others' backs. Not everyone does all of these things, but they're still normal.
Again, unless it's real, full-arm slapping, a normal, well-adjusted guy can do this to a woman he cares about, and normal, well-adjusted women can enjoy it. Sometimes even full-arm slapping, but that's a bit of a minority.
Besides, during sex the way our senses process information changes. Adrenaline and dopamine are pumping through our systems. What might be a painful slap or scratch in normal situations can be really pleasurable.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 Slapping my bottom during sex, very exciting. Slapping my face, BIG turn off. I would ask him to stop. I find it disturbing that he does this to you.
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