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writes: This is a question to man over 40...Do you beleive in andropause?That your sex life dies, and you don't feel like having sex, and your erections are gone?If its true, how common is that? Is this just in long term marriages?I'm just really confused, what is going on for real with sex over 40 ?
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 Im 44 and I can say with certainty that my erection could still pierce the side armor of an Abrahms tank.
A good man may be hard to find....but a HARD MAN IS GOOD TO FIND!
Your hubby may have Erectile Disfunction, or any host of reasons that his Libido has dropped. I suggest seeing a doctor. It could really be something as simple as that.
Honestly Im hornier now and much better jackhammering at 44 than I was at 24. But the main reason for that is becuase I spent much of my twenties doing drugs non stop. Being clean and sober also has helped my performnance.
So please talk to your man about seeing a doctor first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): Everyone is different. Some men do lose their sex drive. Some develop medical issues that interfere with sex. And some get bored with the same-old in a long term relationship, but still have lots of drive.
You haven't given us much to go on. If I were to guess, I'd say you're in a long-term marriage and that the sex isn't what it was. If that's the case, then you need communication and medical intervention. For the latter, he needs to know if it's hypertension, diabetes, or one of the other myriad things that can kill sex. For the former, if he's simply bored, then you have to talk about what might add new spice.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): Honey, I don't know what man your with. But my boyfriend is 43 and we have sex everyday, even twice a day. and this has been going on with us for over a year.
maybe it's the men your with. you need to find the one you have chemistry with. It's hard to find, so don't settle..
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